Femi-NOT

Femi-NOT I am of the generation of liberated women: women who showed their liberty from patriarchy by burning their bras. I didn’t. Never understood that. Did they remove their girdles and Spanx as well? I still don’t understand the purpose; the meaning? Freeing one’s...

Depressed? Don’t worry: Be Happy

  Depressed? Don’t worry: Be Happy   I have been writing about mental illness for many years. I was diagnosed with depression when I was 50. That made sense. I was going through a sad divorce and was recovering from a medical error – my doctor had...

With frenemies like this…who needs enemies?

With frenemies like this…who needs enemies? Too many Jews have forgotten the meaning of the Ninth of Av. “The Second Temple, when Jews were keeping mitzvahs and learning Torah, why was it destroyed?” Sin’at chinam—unwarranted hatred.   It takes a certain amount...